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My sister's cancerstory

Postby Thom » 28 Dec 2011, 22:49

after nearly 4 years clean my 26 year old sister found a lump in her leg some days before Christmas
the day before Christmas she had an operation and
today we found out it's a malignant tumor.
because of the holidays she can only get a PET-scan next week
to see if it has spread
then the next steps will be discussed

what a way to end 2011.
to my family i try to be hopeful and funny and supportive
but inside i just want to relieve her from this pain and this killing uncertainty
i want to switch places
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Postby Suzanne » 28 Dec 2011, 22:51

That's awful news indeed :( I'm really sorry to hear this :( :hug: :hug:
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Postby Becca » 28 Dec 2011, 22:54

It's so interesting to hear about it in her leg. Normally it's in an organ, or in the blood, right? I'm so sorry to hear about this. Even in hard times - try to remain optimistic. I think that it makes everything a little bit easier... and also - keep a strong support system. I would have never made it through my toughest times without my close family and friends.
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Postby Ziggy » 28 Dec 2011, 23:15

I'm so sorry to hear this. :( I'll be praying for you. I hope everything will be okay for you and your family.
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Postby Adam » 28 Dec 2011, 23:28

I am so sorry my love. I have nothing else to say, but if you ever need to speak to me about whatever you want to, you of course can.
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Postby Hungy » 28 Dec 2011, 23:30

I also don't know what to say: :hug:
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Postby megzluvsmelc » 28 Dec 2011, 23:33

I'm sorry to hear! :hug:
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Postby Joanhs » 28 Dec 2011, 23:49

:hug: sending lots of thoughts.. It's horrible to go through, no matter how it turns out
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Postby Lizzy » 28 Dec 2011, 23:58

:hug: i cant say anything but fuck! think of you and your family :hug:
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Postby Jo Spice » 29 Dec 2011, 00:15

Really sorry to hear that :(
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Postby Mama Dee » 29 Dec 2011, 00:20

sorry to hear that hun...hope she gets the all clear soon


erm can i ask what the lump looked like and where it was? size, feel etc?
i have a small something on the side of my knee and wonder if i should get it seen to. it's been there a few years.
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Postby Vitalina » 29 Dec 2011, 00:20

Very sorry to hear that! :( Try to stay strong for her and close to your family, my thoughts go to you!
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Postby Rianneke » 29 Dec 2011, 00:39

that's just aweful. I wish you, your family and especially your sister alot of strength to cope.
Hopefully it's not spread. And your sister can beat this disease for good this time.
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Postby TECHNICOLOR » 29 Dec 2011, 00:43

Really sorry about your situation, Ive just lived something very similar. All my best wishes to your sister and your family. Big Hug.
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Postby Thom » 29 Dec 2011, 00:52

thank all your guys for your support
i know i don't know all of you personally and i'm not a regular
but i does mean a lot

Dee and Becca
she has a history of skincancer, i think that explains the place of the tumor
but the surgeon said it was nicely "captuled" so i'm hoping that that means it hasn't spread
but skincancercells spread fast
Dee, i would have it checked. i also have a tiny bump on my leg but it wasn't something bad

in the daytime i'm very positive but now i can't sleep and feeling sad
her relationship is also gone sour and doesn't have a lot of support of her bf regarding this, even working 2 jobs and taking care of her 1,5 year old son

oh well, tomorrow is another day and another day filled with hope and positivy
cats also have 7 seven lives, so 4 to go :D
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Postby Madrigal » 29 Dec 2011, 00:53

I'm so sorry, Thom. :( :hug:
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Postby Adam » 29 Dec 2011, 00:59

Here in England cats have nine lives, so she's got many more to get through. ;-)
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Postby WhiteLily » 29 Dec 2011, 01:03

All the best to your sister and family. Sending you guys positive healing thoughts. :hug:
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Postby Tiiger » 29 Dec 2011, 02:19

Very sorry to hear this, Thom. I hope she gets better and gets rid of the cancer once and for all. Fight it!
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Postby Charmingspice5 » 29 Dec 2011, 02:31

I'm so sorry Thom. I hope the best for your sister, you and your family :hug:
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Postby FiaSpice » 29 Dec 2011, 02:34

I'm sorry to heard that (2 Dendener's sister getting cancer in the same week :( )
All the best for her and your family.
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Postby Cait » 29 Dec 2011, 02:40

:hug:
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Postby Andrew » 29 Dec 2011, 03:15

I'm sending you and your sister my positive thoughts... I remember you writing about her being clear from it all these years ago. It happened once, I'm sure she can prevail again. Stay strong. :hug:
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Postby Katie Spice » 29 Dec 2011, 04:27

You and your sister have my prayers, Thom! I'm so sorry to hear this. :(
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Re: My sister has got cancer again.

Postby krtkkarphillmuk » 29 Dec 2011, 09:14

sorry to hear that! :( sending positive thoughts your way. Hope they're able to rid of it soon!!
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